"This is my strength: I will go quietly because it is the best thing for you. I will close the door gently behind me and set fire to it. I won’t come back and I will ignore the smoke signals. I will tell my arms ‘no’ when they try to reach for you. I will adore you so softly that the grass will shudder from the care in it. I will leave you just as carefully. This is my strength, it is a different kind than the one you know, but it is defiantly brave just the same."